Hello Readers
This is my post ever. I am started to try new things and I am starting with this one. I already made my first comment on this website and now I am posting my ideas. I hope that you all enjoy reading it.
I had some problems thinking of what I should post up on my first post. I finally found an idea a couple days ago. This first post is about solving a problem. So here it goes.
This problem is not my problem. This problem relates to my brother and my future sister in law. We all was online talking with each other and all of a sudden my brother and future sister in law started arguing. Now I found out late what they are arguing about. I was busy talking with my fiancee. When I found out what they are arguing about, I could not do a thing. All I can do is give an advice to my future sister in law. I told her to IGNORE my brother. I don't know if I gave her the right advice. You see, I grew up in a family with only brothers and no sisters. I am the oldest of 3 boys. I knew all my brothers all my life. My future sister in law, I knew her only for a short time. But in the short time I knew her, I grown to love her so much. In the short time I knew her, I consider her a better person then my brother. To describe to brother in a few words, he is a person who thinks he knows everything. My brother is the middle child. He attitude is not good at all. To him, he has to get everything his way. If he thinks that you are not treating him with respect, he will treat you the same way. But most of the time, he is not respectful anyways. He is an argumentative person. He thinks that everything he do is always right and never wrong. If you criticize him, he will just only talk back to you and not listen. He even talk back to my parents. I scolded him a couple of times, but his personality is still the same. He trust his friends more then his own family. He may have a disappointing personality, but he is still my brother and I love him. Now to describe my future sister in law, I feel that she is the total opposite of him. I do not want to write all the details about her because she has so many qualities that are great. Much better then my brother. Now from what I heard, my brother's and future sister's in law argument was mostly about calling each other bad names. Now I don't know who started the argument, but I feel that my brother started it all. Even though I love my brother, I am siding with my future sister in law. I believe she was just DEFENDING herself. So if my future sister in law is reading this, I know you are a good person. You did nothing wrong. My brother is a jacka**. Whatever he said to you, just forget about it. He is still immature. Don't let a person like that bother you. If you by any chance talk with him again and he start saying stupid words to you, do your best not to let it upset you. Just remember that he is a person he is still immature. So that is for my future sister in law. That is a little more advice for you.
OK readers, what do you think? What advices can you get my future sister in law with her little problem with my brother? Do you know anyone who is like my brother? How do you handle a person who is like my brother?
I hope that the readers who read this enjoyed it and can help out.
Thank You Readers
See You All Later
Peace
Vuthy Kim
3 comments:
Hi Vuthy,
Ha... ha... Poor you to have such a bad brother! (kidding) You are a really good brother, then. Even you know that your brother has unsatisfactory characteristics, you can spread your great affections, and forgive your brother no matter how guilty he is. I really admire you with that. (^-^)
Well, I think your brother might be raised up with too much love and agreement. That is why he always on his side, and don't listen to others. Don't worry, just keep doing your good responsibilities, and be a best brother. One day, he will realize how unfaithful he has been. (^-^) It seems that your sister and your brother were fairly guilty, cos if one of them can tolerate not to argue and be patient, they wouldn't be in conflict like this.
Welcome to be a member of blogspot, Vuthy. Hope others bloggers will find out such a good blog soon. I am the first one, fortunately. How lucky I am to give my first comment to you. ^-^
Take a good care of yourself,
Michelle
Hi! Vuthy, new blogger. For your problem, I think it is a bit serious. I think the best to eliminate that saddness from your mind(if it is too much stress or too much hard for you to slove)or you just continous to do like normal, care about him. love him,tell him about what he did wrong,.....Well, this is just my silly ideas. Don't no it's suitable for you or not te.
Bye bye see you.
Hi Vuthy,
Poor you!
The only way you can do is like what snoopysayhello said. There is no way other than trying to talk to him in calm way. I appreciate your care and your love toward him. You are good brother enough. Anyway, your sister-in-law will understand you. She will forgive your brother. Don't worry so much.
Good luck,
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